New study reveals how our brain processes romantic love, parental and pet love

Published Sep 9, 2024

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Love is a universal human experience, transcending cultures and binding us together in the most profound of ways.

But what exactly is happening in our brains when we feel the warmth of parental affection, the flutter of romantic passion, or the unconditional devotion of our beloved pets?

A recent groundbreaking study has shed remarkable light on this age-old question.

Researchers at Aalto University in Finland have mapped the brain's response to different types of love, from the all-consuming passion of romantic entanglement to the unwavering devotion of parental bonds and the companionship we share with our beloved pets.

Their findings reveal that each form of love ignites a distinct pattern of neural activity, painting a captivating portrait of the brain's intimate dance with the heart. Picture: Mikhail Nilov /Pexels

They used the power of functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) to map brain activity associated with various forms of love.

By having participants read short stories designed to evoke specific emotional responses, the team was able to observe the distinct patterns of brain activation that correspond to parental, romantic and pet-oriented love.

Their findings reveal that each form of love ignites a distinct pattern of neural activity, painting a captivating portrait of the brain's intimate dance with the heart.

Parental love

At the core of the study's discoveries lies the remarkable intensity of parental love.

When participants were asked to imagine the joy of holding their newborn child for the first time, the researchers observed a surge of activity deep within the brain's reward system - specifically, in the striatum, a region associated with pleasure, motivation, and the reinforcement of behaviours. 

This response was unique to parental love, setting it apart from the neural signatures of other forms of interpersonal affection.

This recent study, published in Nature Neuroscience, shows that love isn’t just a one-size-fits-all emotion. Instead, different types of love - whether for a partner, a parent or a pet - each have their unique brain circuits.

The study found that the basal ganglia and the striatum, two regions of the brain involved in reward and motivation, light up in response to love. But here's where it gets interesting: the intensity and location of this brain activity vary depending on the type of love.

For instance, parental love causes the most significant brain activity, while romantic love and love for pets also light up the brain but in slightly different ways.

Why parental love stands out

One of the most striking findings from the study is that parental love activates the brain more intensely than any other form of love. The researchers suggest that this could be because of the evolutionary importance of caring for our offspring.

The survival of our species depends on parents being deeply connected and motivated to protect their children. This intense brain activity might be nature’s way of ensuring that parents are fully invested in the well-being of their kids.

As per “SciTechDaily” reports: "In parental love, there was activation deep in the brain's reward system in the striatum area while imagining love, and this was not seen for any other kind of love," explained Dr Pärttyli Rinne, the study's lead author and a philosopher-researcher.

Love for pets: Interestingly, the study also found that the love we feel for our pets activates the brain in ways that are similar to both romantic and parental love.

The researchers believe this might be due to the caregiving role that pets often play in our lives. When we take care of our pets, we’re engaging in behaviours that are similar to parenting, and our brains respond accordingly.

This finding echoes previous studies that have shown pet ownership can have profound effects on mental health, reducing stress and increasing feelings of happiness.

“We now provide a more comprehensive picture of the brain activity associated with different types of love than previous research,” said Rinne.

According to the research, brain activity is influenced not only by the closeness of the object of love, but also by whether it is a human being, another species or nature.

The study’s findings could have broader implications. For example, according to “Psychology Today”, how love affects the brain, understanding how different forms of love affect the brain could lead to better treatments for mental health conditions like depression or anxiety, where feelings of love and connection are often diminished.

It could also help explain why people who have strong social bonds, whether with a partner, family or pets,tend to be healthier and live longer.

After all, as the ancient Greek philosopher Plato once said: "The soul takes nothing with her to the other world but her education and her culture."

And in the end, it is the love we cultivate that may be the truest measure of our humanity.